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Rebuilding Yourself.


Do you ever feel that the only reason you continue to stay quiet and behind is because it is easier? It is easier to have no voice because playing the victim role is easier than getting up. If you open your mouth and be noticed than you subject yourself to every opinion, your scared someone will judge you, and being in the light where everyone can see every flaw, every mistake, is something your not ready for. You hide yourself behind the past and are reliving it everyday, you are just putting yourself through it over and over again, and because you didn't face the fear of the past each day is filled with fear and regret. You never got up and continuing to be a person who holds it all in doesn't change anything, it doesn't move you forward, it keeps you behind. I made a vow with myself, when I was a child my father always told me something, it seemed that no matter what I did all that was said was, "Your not pretty, your not smart, your not enough." This saying was repeated through all of my childhood and no matter what I do wrong, those words were the first to pop in my head. As I got older I realized that nothing had changed, that every time I made a mistake those words were the first to go through my head and that being a quiet person didn't help me at all, I vowed to not shut up, I vowed to stop holding it all in and to put it in the past. Forgiving my dad was the hardest thing I have ever done, but it had to be done for me to get my voice back. I see it everyday, all around me, I see people that want to move forward, but don't know where to begin and don't want to speak up. It took me a long time to realize that the person that hurt you and that put those words in your head is living on with their life and that you are torturing yourself for someone that doesn't give you a thought. Your wasting your precious life thinking about something that is in the rear view mirror, that is behind you, and doing that never gives you peace. I understand that playing the victim role is easy, that it takes no work, and it is easy to fall back into that title and get comfortable there. But being a SURVIVOR is much nicer and feels amazing! It takes steps to get there, your demons will try everything to make you fall behind, but it is about wanting to be in a better place. I had to build myself back up, but I just looked at it as a phoenix rising from the ashes and it gave me hope that I could rebuild myself. Don't give someone your life because it yours and what you have been there is not who you are, you don't have to stay a victim. Your not one anymore and don't give anyone the satisfaction of knowing they took your smile away because they are not worth it. My challenge to you is to vow to live, to rise again and start to build yourself up again and you will be surprised how much strength you can find inside yourself. I found strength and talents I didn't know I had to pull through and I promise that when you've walked through the fire and are standing on the other side, you will be happy that got back up. Because they didn't take who you are, my chains are gone and there is no one who has the power to take away my happiness ever again. NEVER. 

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